I had this friend, whom I have been having some worries for her. We have known each other since Primary School, and during our Secondary School, we had closer relationship and every Chinese New Year, we will celebrate at her house too.
After completion of our Secondary School, we departed our ways, and she had gone to USM to undertake her undergraduate degree in Chemistry. She was also successful got a career in a Company as a Chemist.
After a few years of us being departed, while she went for UK and I am in Singapore. When I returned a few years ago, I got to know she had an accident and refuse to talk. Therefore, no one knows what happen even her own sister. We tried to ask, but she just refuse to mention.
She had recovered better recently, at least we can talk to her, and she is willing to open her mouth. Those days when we need to talk using paper is gone.
Now, my concern for her is that now, she just lost all her confidence, and she will buzz me every time in MSN telling me that she is having problem at her work. So, what’s the problem? She just keep telling me that she can’t cope and wanted to find a job as factory operator which provides hostel and only works 8 hours.
I keep advising her that she should not on her MSN at work, so she could concentrate very much on the necessary. She was even complaining that her boss did not allow her to have MSN at work coz she has been distracting herself. But, to her, this is not the issue of her being not able to cope at her work.
We are all in wits end how to help this friend of mine.. how can we help to built her confidence, how to help her to stay on her focus.
Another thing is that she keep saying she was being exorcised, and was being disturbed by those dirty stuff.. I told her to pray, and she says she has done it.. so how?
I am really worry for her, as now she is staying with her sister, however without a job, it will be difficult for her too!
Anyone with a better recommendation of factor operator job to recommend? Please let me know… thanks in advance..