I have always wanted to bring the courage to tell me story besides my blog, and last week, I finally submitted a summary of what happen to The Star ParenThots. You may read the article HERE. Feel free to like the story, in the event that you happen to read it.
It was one story which I wanted to share with dear readers of The Star, and to also let those who left in a lurch situation by their irresponsible 'man' that one will be able to survive should one decide to no matter how difficult the situation is. In addition, the family support is always the important point in situation like this.
Many says that I am lucky with the moral support from the family (less not count those that talk behind my back) which I totally agree. Family support indeed very important be in Financially or Emotionally. In the beginning of the time, it was really devastated, but soon, I am able to stand on my feet all thanks to the support from Family and Friends.
Some people asked, why is that you share your story? Aren't you 'ashame' by what happened? I am not here to share my story to seek any sympathy, or any kind of reward. Indeed, I don't think I should be shame of the situation but more for the 'man' that been so irresponsible about it. I am not shameless or being thick skin, but I find that if I am able to survive through those hard times, I am sure there will be people who wanted to be in this situation to know that.
In addition, I also want to let the family members of those people who is facing the same issue realise how important are they to the 'supporting mother' as even without any financial help, she may need emotional support at all times. One can never know how tough that would be if one has never gone through the same situation.
I can truly understand how it feels, till now, caring for a child from birth. That's make me appreciate my mum more as time goes by. I am also finding ways to set up something where the Single Mothers can gather and seek support or share support where possible. I am now research into this matter, and should anyone of you has any idea where should I start, please feel free to buzz me and let me know.
My target is to help those being impregnated by those irresponsibility 'man' and reduce the baby dumping too! It's sad to read news about babies being dumped sometimes.